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"Even though I consider myself as a 'conscious individual' and on a spiritual path, I've been able to see what has been really going on in my relationships for years & how I haven't been able to see the hurtful stuff I've been repeating and setting up over and over....I thought it was because of what she was doing!!" Bernard, 29yrs Create Conscious Committed Extraordinary Partnerships
"Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change". Wayne Dywer Relationships mirror back to us that which we most need to learn and determine 90% of our happiness or misery. They inspire us to open and expand while also stirring up our conditioned patterns from the past that block us being present. The Keeping the Love You Find Workshop gives an opportunity to better uncover the unconscious agenda/baggage YOU bring to all your adult relationships and answer the question "What it is like living with me, being in relationship with me?"..... “I discovered what has really been going on and how I haven't been able to see the hurtful stuff I've been repeating - I thought it was because of what she was doing!!" It helps you to Be more Intentional About You! The past is creating your present. Childhood conditioning invisibly controls our life. Change self-defeating behaviours. Learn practical user-friendly life-skills to replace hurtful patterns of relating to create the deep love of your dreams. It is a great opportunity to deepen your understanding of the interpretations and "the stories you make up" when you are in conflict. From earliest childhood, our brains are actually formed and wired according to what is repeated in the environments around us. Whatever is repeated over and over and modeled to us becomes our perception of who we are and what we can expect from the world. We need to uncover what were the models of love that we were exposed to and influenced by. What parts of us had to be hidden, or got lost, or were stolen, so that we could be accepted in the environments that were surrounding us as we were growing up? What is it like being around me when I am at my worst!......... What sort of "Darth Vader" do I turn into and why?..... And remember we don't see these hidden parts of ourselves and they come out as our automatic default defense patterns when we are triggered and feel vulnerable. This work is a big key to unlocking much of the frustration and conflict and repeating patterns we find ourselves in.... Let us expand your consciousness around who the Keeping the Love You Find Workshop is for! There is value for everyone to participate in this transformational workshop. I often hear people talking about it as if it is just for SINGLES. What a loss to only see it in this way! We recommend this workshop as being for ALL INDIVIDUALS - whether you are SINGLE or PARTNERED The last time we presented this workshop one young woman who had recently previously attended the Couples workshop attended the "Keeping" workshop with her mother and brother. There is so much healing and growth that can occur when attending with family members. We had a couple of guys who were friends come together as well as a few women. There were also some couples as we encourage it as a perfect review and follow on to the Couple’s Workshop where either or both want to go deeper. We also promote it as a great place to start if your partner is not willing to do the work with you and it is also especially transformational for those separated or considering separating. "What we can or cannot do, what we consider possible or impossible, is rarely a function of our true capability. It is more likely a function of our beliefs about who we are." Anthony Robbins ______________________________________________ PARTICIPANTS' comments:
“The work was remarkable – life-changing – because it gave me a way to find my way back to you – which is what I want because I want us to have the greatest marriage possible..............We needed some tools and we needed a guide. The steps that are laid out are very logical. I walk away very hopeful. I am inspired!" (Matthew, 45yrs near break-up after he had affair who came with his wife of 20yrs )
(Angie, 48yrs)
I am on a disability pension and have had chronic pain for the last 14 yrs from accidents that occurred then, for which I have taken daily doses of morphine. My biggest concern about attending the weekend was my ability to physically sustain myself through the two ten hour days. I was astonished to realize on the Saturday night that I had been pain free throughout the day AND I had only taken half my usual medication dose and on Sunday I was only experiencing minimal discomfort. I discovered the ways my physical illness is related to not being heard and having my needs met in childhood. I had an astonishing weekend of truly feeling heard, feeling safe and starting on a conscious journey towards developing healthy relationships with both others and myself. The most amazing gift was experiencing the connection between being heard; validated, connecting with the unmet childhood needs and the power those unmet needs have on my whole being. I’ve had a tangible lesson in transformational healing. (Elizabeth, 48yrs) __________________________________ For a taster of the workshops read the following Article from our ARTICLES & RESOURCES page making sure to do the Exercise at the end - Who is My Perfect Partner – My "Imago Match?"
But the part of our brain that comes up with all these wonderful qualities is unfortunately not the part of us that chooses our partners. CHANGE is inevitable. GROWTH is optional....... Click here for more information about our workshops
Shelton Huettig, M.A., Marriage and Family Therapist Susie Itzstein, B.A., Psychotherapist/Educator © 2007 ImagoMatters.org | All Rights Reserved
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